What’s In A Name - Hope Anew
Oh the anticipation, dreams, hopes, excitement, preparation and thoughts that filled our hearts and minds as we eagerly awaited the arrival of our first child! And one of the questions uppermost in our minds…what were we going to name him? To us, a name is very important. Pick the wrong name and the child could be made fun of for the first two decades of his life. We talked through hundreds of names – some reminded Jonathan or I of people we didn’t have fond memories of and we didn’t want our son to carry the same name. Some have common nicknames we didn’t like. Some one of us loved, but the other hated. Some we liked one week, not so much the next. Some were just meh.
The meaning of the name was also very important, and we believe a child very often grows into the meaning of his name. As we talked through possibilities, one of our favorite names meant “firebrand”. While that could mean he would really make a mark on the world and leave a lasting legacy, it could also mean that he could be a hellion to rear, exciting pain or danger wherever he went. Yikes. Mark that one off the list. It was quite a process, but we finally arrived at a name we both loved and still do.
The process for naming Hope Anew wasn’t too different, except that baby name books were no help, and URLs that were already taken figured heavily into the decision. But, the significance of the name was important. Again, we talked through many possibilities before we came up with and then settled on Hope Anew. As soon as Jonathan said it, I loved it. We checked the URL – available! We put it in with two other top name options and asked friends and family their opinions and Hope Anew won hands down.
Why did I love it so much upon first hearing it and grew to love it more and more as I continued to think about it?
Here are my reasons:
Hope. After the early years of a having a special needs child when I lived in crushing anguish, broken dreams, darkness, and hopelessness, hope was my #1 need. Like water in a wilderness, hope to a downcast soul brings life, renewal, healing, a way forward. Hope is an absolute necessity, yet many find it elusive! Having “hope” in the name of an organization where the support of parents with kids impacted by special needs and disability is the sole purpose and focus…brilliant idea!
Hope. Hope points to the true hope we have in life and this world…God, His son, Jesus. Salvation, certainly, but also His faithful love and care for us here and now. A sure hope. Not the common, modern definition meaning, “a desire” as in, “I hope you have a nice day.” But rather the archaic definition, “trust, to expect with confidence, reliance” and the biblical definition, “confident expectation of what God has promised, and its strength is in His faithfulness.” This isn’t a, “I hope my son gets better”, “I hope this therapy works” kind of hope. But rather a, “No matter what, God loves me, my child, and I can trust He sees the big picture, has a plan and will work thing together for our good even in the midst of this very broken world.”
Anew. Gaining hope again in the parent’s journey. I don’t know about you, but I certainly went through periods of time (years) where I had lost hope. No hope. No future. Darkness, all was darkness. Hopeless. I felt embarrassed, guilty, weak. I learned that is a common part of the special needs parenting journey. You don’t need to feel embarrassed, guilty or weak. Goodness, your life just got flipped upside down. All your hopes and dreams were shattered and scattered, and you have NO idea which way is up, let alone what’s ahead! No one has given you a map with “You are here” marked on it. For Pete’s sake (sorry, Pete, I don’t know who you are or why your name is used for this expression), you’re just trying to figure out how to make it through the next minute of crisis (aka your new life)! BUT, after that yawning chasm of hopelessness, darkness, brokenness, when you climb up and out on the other side, there are new dreams! There is light! There are less crisis, or at least a well-trod action plan for how to handle the next crisis. You can begin to see traces of God’s faithful care of you through that chasm and all those crises. He didn’t abandon you after all, even though it had felt like He had. And now you gain the reassurance, the knowing deep in your soul, He’ll also carry you through the next one. Hope blooms anew, rebuilt, stronger, steadier on the far side of that chasm. Hope Anew.
What is in the name Hope Anew? Hope, a sure promise we can count on from a faithful God to carry us and love us as we walk through a broken, hurting world and pick us up and grow us up in our understanding of Him after we have lost our hope, vision and dreams.
Oh, and our eldest son – his name is Josiah, meaning “God supports, heals.” You might have some insight into the extra pressures on siblings of kids with special needs. I’d say avoiding “Firebrand” and going for “God supports” was a good call.
Written by Sarah McGuire
Sarah McGuire is the Mom of two boys and co-founder of Hope Anew, a nonprofit that guides parents to Christ-centered hope and healing. You can follow Hope Anew on Facebook here. You can also check out Hope Anew’s Online Community here!
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